More Weekend Update Because Dirk Wanted it and What Dirk Wants, Dirk Gets, So here you go Dirk!!!
Wow...two posts in one day...just because the lovely Mr. Dirk Mancuso wanted more details.
So the non argument was more of a discussion about how he thinks I don't speak my mind enough and that I'm too agreeable. How I'm always wanting to do whatever he wants and not what I want. My response was that I can't suggest places to go or things to do in a town where I'm not familiar with what's cool and what's not. So unless it's someplace that sounds terrible or whatever, I wouldn't object.
Example...
He: Where do you want to go eat?
Me: I dunno...Italian sounds good...what do you recommend?
He: Hmm...Ok, let's go to *insert Italian restaurant*
Me: Sounds good.
And scene.
To me, that's not caving in or compromising. To his credit, I do tend to be easy going, and will only refuse to do something if it absolutely upsets me or it's something I don't want to do. Just ask the Gal Pal about pitching a fit for not wanting to eat at Taco Bell.
I know nothing overly dramatic, but it was the first point of uncomfortableness between us, so yeah I probably got a little excited about a whole lotta nothing.
Thom tells me he's not used to others catering to him, and I told him to get used to it, but I'll be more conscious about making decisions or planning things for us.
End of non-story.
So there Dirkie, I could have just emailed, but decided to double post.
Feliz Navidude!
3 Comments:
Now, really...what that so hard?
Im glad you posted, you havent emailed me in months!
You would have thought the Taco Bell was day old crap... sheesh. You are not a doormat... I can vouch for that :-)
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